5 questions every woman dreams of asking a man, and the honest answers to them

The most popular topic among women is, of course, men and issues related to relationships with them. And, of course, the vast majority of the fairer sex would do anything to know what guys really think of them.

SSPDaily writes: "What do men think about women? How do they feel about sex? Do men truly respect women or do they just tolerate them to be able to have regular sex? Here are 5 questions that women dream of asking men and the answers that explain how things really are."

What do men want from women?

Although men are certainly not all the same, and you should always take individual characteristics into account, some timeless topics in this regard are still worth talking about.

The vast majority of men are not that difficult to understand if you grasp a few basic concepts about the reality of their existence.

The main thing is that they always strive for freedom. And what freedom means for each particular man varies. One man sees freedom in being a bachelor, traveling, and having short-term relationships. Another sees it in the absence of obstacles to his life's work, from its beginning to the end of his days.

This quality is incomparably greater in men than in women, which is confirmed by a well-known truth: "The feminine in every human being longs for love and connection, while the masculine seeks a sense of purpose above all else."

That's why men often seek women who complement and support their purpose in the world.

What actions of women annoy men the most?

The worst thing for a man is if you don't trust him. Trust is so important to them because it demonstrates that their partner is confident in the very essence of their masculinity-their integrity and decision-making ability.

So trust men if they are trustworthy and practice "deep" consent periodically. And if you don't trust them and their decisions, just don't be with them.

Another point worth mentioning is that no matter how much a man works on himself, there will still be moments when he will perceive his partner's care for him as "nitpicking" at least 1% of the time.

Since men crave peace, quiet, and freedom, there is something in a relationship with a woman that resembles voluntarily chaining oneself to the antithesis of immobility.

Take into account that some part of your man always dreams of just getting drunk, relieving himself of all responsibility, and sleeping with a woman who doesn't challenge or call him to greatness. And any man who denies this is either out of touch with his animal self or lying to your face.

What are men least confident in?

Men are first and foremost human beings, and they have a sense of insecurity. At the same time, there is a special, "male" insecurity, which is how competent they are as breadwinners, as lovers (sexual stamina, complete satisfaction of the partner), and how competent they are in finding a partner (if they are single).

There is a huge self-selection factor here. And everything that goes beyond that is of much lesser importance.

At the same time, the main topic here is always their competence. After all, while women are raised to be pleasant and attractive, men are primarily conditioned to be efficient and useful.

How do men view successful women?

Surveys of women show that many sympathize with men who do not fully control their emotions. In fact, it looks like this: it's good when he can cry while watching a movie and is generally sensitive enough to always understand what she is feeling.

And although it looks good in theory, in real life, many women quickly get tired of such partners.

The same thing happens to men who say they want to be with a strong woman. The idea sounds nice and progressive. But this does not mean that, for example, a man will be able to maintain a relationship with a woman who earns more than him for a long time.

In the end, it all comes back to our internal dialogues. A woman can be with a man who feels deeply about his emotions (and has a habit of expressing them) if she has accepted the full range of her own emotions, and if she can find the source of her own sense of stability within herself.

Likewise, a man can be with a woman who earns a lot of money or holds a high position if he is in touch with his inner source of strength and does not need to participate in a secret competition with his partner. Such a man knows that an influential partner does not threaten his sense of power, but, on the contrary, helps to strengthen it.

How do men treat women with low sexual desire?

A man's main job in sex is to cultivate overall stamina, which is related to the ability to influence ejaculation time. It also has to do with how much time he can devote to his partner so that she can fully express herself.

A woman's main sexual work is to cultivate a constant sense of sexual simplicity. The Taoists often referred to men as fire and women as water, and it is up to women, according to this teaching, to maintain the "boiling" level of water.

Tip: If you prefer to channel your energy into other areas of life, then you should let go of the guilt of having a low level of sexual sensitivity and allow yourself to be who you are. But if you want to channel some of your energy into intimate relationships, then this will require a reprioritization of your values.

In this case, you should have fewer 12-hour workdays. You have to stop going to bed completely exhausted and have enough energy for hugs and caresses. Your life should also include fewer work calls at the dinner table and more bubble baths, hiking, and outdoor activities.

In this case, you will have a real chance to quickly change the situation in your sex life for the better.