5 signs your first date went well and could lead to something more
A first date can be difficult, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have potential. It all depends on certain signs that indicate that everything went well. They may look unscientific, but that's how you can tell if the relationship has potential.
"Sometimes," writes The Jerusalem Post, "at the end of a successful first date, you feel excited or calmly confident that something special has happened and that there is a possibility of an interesting relationship. However, this feeling soon leaves you. And the question remains whether it makes sense to take the second step or try your luck with someone else."
Here are 5 signs that will unmistakably indicate the prospects of a relationship and remove all questions about the need to continue it.
A real kiss
It can be a kiss in a taxi or when you are being walked home. The main thing is that it should be a sincere gesture in which he puts his soul - a meaningful action that means that you are serious.
Expressing interest
Yes, some men make empty promises, so let's be realistic. If he mentioned his love for winter sports and you immediately called yourself a snowboarding expert, and then he said: "Let's travel together in the winter," don't rush to buy a ski suit.
But if he mentions a specific event in a specific place or says he's available on a specific day, then you can start making plans for a second date.
Going to different places on the first date
Did your date start at a bar and then turn into a trip to the beach? Maybe you both wanted ice cream or a juicy hamburger? This means that he had fun with you, enjoyed your company in different places, and most likely felt comfortable.
In addition, if your date included transitions between a restaurant, bar, club, falafel shop, and eventually a bedroom, it's likely that there will be a sequel in the coming days.
Conscious intimacy
Let's talk about sex. Hundreds of thousands of single women can tell you that even amazing sex doesn't guarantee a text the next day, let alone a few days after. When it comes to sex, there are no set rules and you shouldn't take it as a sign of a quality date.
Sometimes it is simply the result of mutual desire or perhaps too much alcohol. However, if he invited you to stay the night, didn't make the excuse "I have to get up early," and bought you oatmeal milk in the morning, there's a chance that this wasn't a one-time thing.
Quick message
A 100% guarantee of a successful date is when you receive a message from him within an hour of the date's end. It doesn't matter if he writes "I had fun" or checks to see how you got home, if he sends you a message before going to bed, it's a clear hint that he wants to see you again.