How not to ruin a relationship: 10 things not to do to avoid pushing a man away
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Perhaps every woman wants to have a relationship that would bring happiness and last a lifetime. Psychologists have provided recommendations on what not to do when communicating with a man who has recently appeared in your life. SSPDaily prepared a list of 10 things you shouldn't do in communication so as not to alienate a potential partner.
What are the 10 things in women's behavior that repel men
- Too fast a development of events. If you've known a man for a few days or weeks, you shouldn't start planning a wedding. It takes time to get to know each other. And too fast a development of events will scare your chosen one and meetings may stop.
- Insecure or obsessive behavior. A woman who is insecure is betrayed by her behavior. She may laugh nervously, talk a lot, or show off. A man instinctively reads insecurity, and it will scare him away. Because your partner will feel like he is being used.
- Closure. If you cannot open up to a man, and you have already had several dates, then you should work on it. Perhaps you have had some previous unsuccessful relationships, and it is difficult for you to open up to your partner. Then you should do it gradually so that the man feels that you trust him.
- Talking about money. In the first months of dating, you shouldn't ask about a man's financial situation. This may alert him, he will think that you are with him only because of money.
- Lack of mystery. Men are hunters by nature. And when a woman is completely open, does not have a mystery that a man would have to solve, he quickly loses his interest. Therefore, you should not fully disclose yourself to your partner, give him room for reflection and fantasy, this will only strengthen your relationship.
- Excessive attention. Avoid frequent calls and messages, and don't impose on your partner. If you pay too much attention to a man, he will have no room for his own actions. He may lose interest in you very quickly.
- Intimacy on the first date. This is an extremely controversial issue, but if you want to have a long-term relationship with your partner, it would be good to get to know him first.
- Dating to fulfill your own needs. If you need a man only to bring home a salary, because of property or social status, then you may find that you will also be used to satisfy your own needs. Therefore, you should first decide what you need a relationship with a man for, so that you are not disappointed later.
- Memories of past relationships. Here it is worthwhile to understand whether you would be pleased to hear about your current husband's ex-girlfriends.
- Alcohol abuse. You shouldn't drink alcohol on dates so that you don't feel ashamed of your behavior the next day.
