A woman tells the truth about her affair with an 80-year-old pensioner: "I don't miss his dentures"
The woman said that dating an older man is not something girls dream of. SSPDaily told more about her experience.
Stefani Matto, a former reality TV star, is not afraid to shed light on her personal life, and this time she discussed the problems that can arise in relationships with men with a big age difference.
Stephanie, who is now 32 years old, spoke online about how she dated a much older man when she was 23 years old.
She said: "Rest in peace, my ex. I miss him sometimes. I don't miss the bad breath, I don't miss the dentures, I don't miss how irritable he was in the morning. I know people advise against speaking ill of the dead, but he was my ex. I think he was actually older than my grandparents."
Stephanie said that dating older men is a sign of "daddy issues" and does not recommend it.
"When you're a young woman and you start dating older men, you get the impression that you're like Lana Del Rey," she said. "But no, you just have daddy issues, and that's exactly what happened to me. I think I was so scared of meeting young guys who were just using me for my body, using me for money."
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She added that she wanted to prove that she was smart by dating someone older, but instead found herself acting "dumb" in a different way.
Stephanie had assumed that older men would be more mature and willing to be reasonable, but she found that this was not the case.
"Older men are just as likely to cheat," she explained. "You think that because they have a low libido, they won't cheat on you. But there is also emotional betrayal, and do you know how many ex-girlfriends this man has? Do you know how many girls he meets in the nursing home?"
She insisted that she never felt threatened by other women. Instead, she argued that if a man is looking for a woman who is much younger, it should be taken as a red flag.
"Just because they're 80 doesn't mean that everything down there doesn't work, the lights are still on, they just flicker sometimes," she continued. "Personally, I wouldn't recommend it."
The video posted on her TikTok account has since gone viral. People immediately responded in the comments and shared their own experiences.
- Old men are jealous, angry, and selfish. They are emotional vampires! They need younger women because they are at the same level of maturity
- Young men are children, they will cheat, and an older man is a man who will take care of you
- I am over 60 and you are right
- I am 62 years old, I am dating a 34-year-old and we don't have the problem you mentioned because we understand each other
